Meeting Potential Intended Parents
Tips for a Successful Surrogacy Application and Matching with Your Intended Parents
You’ve made the incredible decision to become a surrogate—now the exciting journey of finding the perfect match with your intended parents begins. This process can feel daunting, nerve-wracking, and sometimes even a little awkward, but it’s also filled with excitement. A rollercoaster of emotions is perfectly normal. Rest assured, our team will carefully match you with intended parents who are highly compatible with you, so you can relax and focus on being your authentic self.
To help you navigate this experience, here are some tips on what to wear, what to say, what to expect, and how to prepare for meeting your intended parents.
- Surrogacy application
When completing a surrogacy application, approach it with the same care and attention you would a job application. Use full sentences to thoroughly convey your thoughts and experiences, rather than relying on bullet points. This ensures a more detailed and thoughtful presentation, helping to create a stronger, more personal connection with your potential intended parents. - Showcasing yourself
When attaching photos, it’s wonderful to include pictures with your family and support system but be sure to also provide one or two solo shots. Choose chest-up photos with good lighting, where you’re smiling warmly, and avoid sunglasses or hats. We want your personality to shine through! Dress to impress, but most importantly, stay true to yourself. - Preparing for the conversation
Remember, this meeting isn’t just about the intended parents choosing you; it’s also about you choosing them. Prepare a list of questions, and don’t hesitate to ask personal ones about their journey to this decision. Be open and honest in your conversation—share your story and why you chose surrogacy, as this could be the beginning of a long and rewarding relationship. - Building a connection
Prior to the first meeting, you and the intended parents will have the opportunity to review each other’s profiles in detail. At this point, the screening is over. This meeting is your chance to start building a friendship. Keep the conversation light and focus on getting to know each other better. Here are some question ideas to get you started:- Can you tell me about your family?
- What brought you to the decision to pursue surrogacy?
- Do you have any pets?
- How do you like to unwind or relax?
- How do you enjoy spending your free time?
- What are some of your favorite vacation spots?
- Nurturing the relationship
Once you are matched with your intended parents, it’s essential to nurture and strengthen that relationship, as it’s a bond that will last a lifetime. Open and consistent communication is crucial, so discuss the best ways to keep in touch and set expectations for how often and through which methods you’ll connect. Some surrogates and intended parents form close friendships and meet in person frequently. Whether through email, text, WhatsApp, phone calls, video calls, or in-person visits, find what works best for you. The journey ahead will have its ups and downs, and it’s important to continue showing up for each other through every ebb and flow.
Embarking on this surrogacy journey is a monumental step, and finding the right match with your intended parents is just the beginning. Remember, this experience is as much about building a meaningful relationship as it is about creating a new life. Trust in the process, stay true to yourself, and embrace the highs and lows that come with this unique and beautiful journey.
You’re not alone—our team is here to support you every step of the way, ensuring that your path to surrogacy is as smooth and fulfilling as possible. Here’s to a future filled with connection, growth, and the extraordinary gift you’re about to give.
If we haven’t answered all of your questions, don’t hesitate to reach out to our team, otherwise click here to get started on your surrogacy application today.
